smokefalls:

“And you’ll smile at this man and wonder if he too, like all those who came before him, will someday be a bittersweet memory, will someday be felled by the same foolish blunder of knowing you a little too well and yet also somehow not enough.”

Raphael Bob-Waksberg, “The Serial Monogamist’s Guide to Important New York City Landmarks” from Someone Who Will Love You in All Your Damaged Glory

smokefalls:

“A statue isn’t built from the ground up—it’s chiseled out of a block of marble—and I often wonder if we aren’t likewise shaped by the qualities we lack, outlined by the empty space where the marble used to be. I’ll be sitting on a train. I’ll be lying awake in bed. I’ll be watching a movie; I’ll be laughing. And then, all of a sudden, I’ll be struck by the paralyzing truth: it’s not what we do that makes us who we are. It’s what we don’t do that defines us.”

Raphael Bob-Waksberg, “We Men of Science” from Someone Who Will Love You in All Your Damaged Glory